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so both parents are paying for the wedding and tradition dictates that the brides parent's name goes first in that case - except we are both brides obviously - so who's name goes first?

Hi Gals-

Have you come up with your solution? If so, what was it?

I suppose you could have chosen something such as:

* Which family is based where you are having the ceremony and may do more informal hosting

* An alphabetical listing

* Drawing straws

* Whichever looks most aesthetically pleasing on the invite

It might not hurt to check in with both sets of parents to see if anyone has any wishes or ideas on that front as well.

who's paying more? thats another thing to go buy, sounds bad, but it works right?

The couple I help on their wedding invitations we did it in alpha order.