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We have been toying with the idea of using an online wishing well to receive cash contributions instead of receiving physical gifts at our wedding. Of course we would not welcome gifts but we feel that receiving the cash could go to something more useful such as our honeymoon, car or house downpayment.

What are your thoughts?

We have been thinking of using this service: www.ourwishingwell.com

Has anyone used it yet?

Has anyone use any others?

Looking forward to your thoughts...

Hi Jason-

Have you made a decision?

I have heard mixed things about resources like this. Some cultures include cash gifts as a wedding custom and others frown upon it.

Increasingly, though, wedding etiquette seems to be changing how matters like this are decided.

I believe that there are also honeymoon registries so perhaps you could set up something more specific so that folks are aware of how you'd like to use it?

Anyone else out there with thoughts on this?