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My fiancée and I were having a discussion about our wedding. We were trying to work out the details and we have one question we don't know how to answer. I am the boyish one (butch) and she's the femme. She already knows who to invite to be the Maid of Honor and Bridesmaids. My problem is I was wondering if I have a best man or groomsmen. I would appreciate any help on this matter.

Hi Artistic Boi-

Hopefully, my reply isn't too late for you. Have you found some resolution?

The beauty of our ceremonies is that you can do whatever you want. If you want groomsmen, have groomsmen. If you want Bridesmaids and want them to wear pants, go for it! If you want a mix of both, have at it!

Each couple can best decide from themselves who they want their Honor Attendants / Best Friends to be. There's no need to be limited by traditional gender constraints... this is a gay wedding, after all!